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100 New Year Resolution

Found this interesting article from the net.
Those in RED are what I hope to do in the New Year :)

What about YOU?

  • Send flowers to near & dear ones
  • resolution to send flowers
  • Never look back
  • Don't brood, keep the head high
  • watch news channels over soaps
  • buy and read books
    read more
  • Chill! Cool your heels
  • Give a damn to foes
  • snore less (if you can help it)
  • Give back, when required
  • Spend time with the pet
    spend time with pets
  • Network more, make friends
  • Pray to the Almighty
  • Express admiration for others
  • Clean the bedroom, at least weekly
  • Write and continue writing diary
  • Celebrate without reasons
  • Admit your faults
  • Less use of credit card
    Enjoy rains and nature
  • Enjoy nature, rains
  • Listen to music regularly
    music for the soul
  • Bake a cake, once in a while
  • Visit aged relatives
  • No lending money
  • Be yourself
  • Cultivate a hobby
  • Read and share jokes
    go for a trek
  • Take trips
  • Gift yourself
    gift yourself and others
  • Help mom/wife in household choir
  • Listen to Dad's advice in investment
  • Connect to old friends
  • Beg pardon.. after burping
  • Flush, after hitting the loo
  • Save, save and save with a target
  • Clean up your own mess
  • Brush teeth twice
  • Bathe daily
  • Stop doubting the maid
  • Eat healthy, say no to junk food eat healthy stay healthy
  • Cook a meal, as frequently as possible
  • Drink more.....WATER
  • Go for an eye checkup
  • Don't bring work to home
  • Listen to parents
  • Say no to jealousy
  • Discuss ideas and concepts, not people
  • Picnicpicnics, outings, and getaways
  • No borrowing clothes
  • Express your love
  • Show when you care
  • Have a positive bent of mind
  • Don't pretend

  • Think beyond the given conditions and the present

  • Feel good
  • Smile more often feel good
  • Compliment liberally and truthfully
  • Dutch... with friends
  • Take morning walks, long walks
  • taking walks is a must
  • Use the fork and spoon, while eating
  • Ignore hygiene mania
  • Respond to all emails
  • Write snail mail
  • Chat with common sense and honesty
  • Count calorie intake
  • Do something about being overweight
  • Start the day with newspapers
  • Respect secrets & keep them
  • Trust fellow human beings
  • Listen to your heart
  • Believe in miracles
  • Want less, accept more
  • Share your dreams
  • Thank your stars..more often
  • No self praise
  • Thank God more often
  • Treat dandruffs, get to a dermatologist
  • Change socks daily
  • please see that their smell donot disturb others
  • Fold clothes before putting them in the cupboard
  • Give space, mental and physical, to others
  • Participate in home choirshelp in household choir, and bake cakes
  • Donate to charity organizations
  • Give advice only when it is asked for, and when it is a life and death question
  • Surf less, meet people more
  • Use the dressing mirror less
  • Accept your flaws
  • Spend at least one Sunday every month purely at home
  • Wear an attitude, not pride
  • More truth..less lies
  • Sleep with mouth closed
  • Work hard
  • Talk more..sms less
  • Don't curse the neighbour
  • Find a new heartthrob
  • find a sweetheart
  • Forget the ex flames
  • Dare to dream
  • Gift yourself at times
  • Eat with mouth closed
  • Always carry a clean hanky
  • Don't litter


Birthday Meme

Marzie, Raghav & Erisha tagged me on the Birthday Meme.

December is a birthday month for many of my friends as follow :
9th - Joyce
11th - Molly
24th - my 4th sis
26th - Caleb
27th - Dylan
29th - Louis

Rules:1. Mention the person who tagged you and create a link back to them.

2. Copy-paste the traits for all the twelve months (see below).

3. Pick your month of birth (see below).

4. Highlight the traits that apply to you.

5. Tag 12 people and let them know by visiting their blogs and leaving a comment for them.

6. Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve done it!

My birth month is APRIL

APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and hasty but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving. Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their lover can see.

Now, I'd like to tag the following friends to share their birthday month and traits with me!


JANUARY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Ambitious and serious. Loves to teach and be taught. Always looking at people’s flaws and weaknesses. Likes to criticize. Hardworking and productive. Smart, neat and organized. Sensitive and has deep thoughts. Knows how to make others happy. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Rather reserved. Highly attentive. Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds. Romantic but has difficulties expressing love. Loves children. Loyal. Has great social abilities yet easily jealous. Very stubborn and money cautious.

FEBRUARY: Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizes dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody.

APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and hasty but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving. Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their lover can see.

MAY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited. Spendthrift.

JUNE: Thinks far with vision. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Able to show character. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Brand conscious. Executive. Stubborn.

JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.

AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride in oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.

SEPTEMBER: Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people’s mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic.

OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves them. Loves to take things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves to travel, the arts and literature. Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair. Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children.

NOVEMBER: Has a lot of ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinks forward. Unique and brilliant. Extraordinary ideas. Sharp thinking. Fine and strong clairvoyance. Can become good doctors. Dynamic in personality. Secretive. Inquisitive. Knows how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less talkative but amiable. Brave and generous. Patient. Stubborn and hard-hearted. If there is a will, there is a way. Determined. Never give up. Hardly becomes angry unless provoked. Loves to be alone. Thinks differently from others. Sharp-minded. Motivates oneself. Does not appreciate praises. High-spirited. Well-built and tough. Deep love and emotions. Romantic. Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest and keeps secrets. Not able to control emotions. Unpredictable.

DECEMBER: Loyal and generous. Sexy. Patriotic. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Loves to socialize. Loves praises. Loves attention. Loves to be loved. Honest and trustworthy. Not pretending. Short tempered. Changing personality. Not egotistic. Take high pride in oneself. Hates restrictions. Loves to joke. Good sense of humor. Logical.


Birthday Party at Downtown East Chalet

It was Dylan's 3rd Birthday Party celebration at Downtown East Chalet on Xmas Day.The wall was nicely decorated with a disney banner surrounded by fanciful balloons. Guests could even leave down words of wishes on the piece of paper you see on the right. It was pasted on the the door beside the main door. A box of magic pens were pasted on the wall too.

How creative :)

This is Dylan & his mummy, Jessica.

Below were pictures of me & the 2 boys inside the chalet.

We were there early. The boys were jumping on the beds inside the chalet. It was so cosy that Amos rested on it with all sorts of position you can see... LOL :D
My friend, Jessica even brought along her cookery sets just to make porridge with spinach & mushroom) for her little birthday boy. How thoughtful!!

There were extra & she scoop a bowl for Amos. However, Zac was the one who finished up the porridge. Amos didn't like the taste, it was a bit blend. I added a few cubes of satay meat for Zac to go along with the porridge :)

Look at the BIRTHDAY cake. It was just TOO exquisite. A 3-tier birthday cake... WOWOW... !!

All the kids were thrilled at the look of it. This is the first time I see such an elaborated birthday cake. I heart it too. The sticks on the cake were individual edible lollipop to be distributed for the kiddos. So cute rite? Also, each tier of cake gave a different flavour, either fruity or chocolate, strawberry or vanilla. Awwwww.. that's just TOO wonderful. I bet it cost more than S$200 for that :)

If you are also keen in the cake. You can order it from
My 2 boys each had their lollipop. Notti Amos didn't want the small lolliipop. How cheeky of him. !!

Zac was kind & gave the BIG one to Amos. Such thoughtful gesture of Zac won him 2 small lollipops then.... hehehe ;p
They each took home 2 Xmas pressie from the host. There were 2 more party packs but I didn't have time to take pic of them. I was so tired when I reached home.

When I woke up in the morning. The packs were all scattered over the floor.... The 2 rascals were way too early then me & have feasted on them..... wahahahaha :D


Reflection ...

2007 is coming to an end in a few days time...
Its time for me to reflect on my journey during the year.
2007 spin off with a Chinese New Year that wasn't an auspicious one for my family.

Sad to say, it was a year of mishap, tears & so much sadness .... the endless visits in & out of the hospitals were more than times that I actually sat down to watch the TV, can you believe it?

My late brother coping his live with an amputated leg (due to bone cancer on the leg) that changed his lifestyle totally till his death on 21 Oct 2007 at age 45 yrs old. He is still fondly missed by all of us!!

My mum also went for surgery in June, she endured it until one fine day she could hardly walk... :(

I started my blogging journey mid of this year, partly out of curiousity.
Glad to have known a handful of great friends who bring me laughter everyday just by your simple words at my shout. Even when friends gone on vacation, they remembered me & captured my name on the island's sand (see my boys & my name on the left side of the blog). Thanks, Trinity, Carlo & Amel (for the snow carve). Also, not forgeting those who remembered me & air-flown cards & pressie over. Jamilla, Emila, Jean. Thank you so much, love ya ;)

I'm awaiting for some happiness during this festive season when got a friend's message that he was diagnosed with lung cancer & had gone for chemotheraphy thrice. Its really hard to believe... someone who don't smoke, drink, lead a healthy lifestyle, went home after work to be with the family (wife & 4 kids less than 10 yrs old). I'm really speechless ...
My late brother died of lung failure due to lung cancer which has spreaded from his bone cancer.
I just felt so sore on hearing that a friend has to suffer it now. Things doesn't look too positive for me the moment the patient had to go for chemo. Somehow....
Let's pray for his speedy recover & lesser pain & torture.

I'm in a confused state of mind right down to set down my resolutions for the New Year.
I wish for good health to everybody. Its so critical :)


Xmas Pressie for the boys

Saw this interesting remote control helicopter for quite sometimes. Only last weekend did I purchase it when the boys showed much interest when there was a demo on it.

Metro is selling it for S$36+ while Kiddy Palace is having a promotion at S$29.90. EXACTLY the SAME !!

Of course I will purchase from the latter !! LOL :D

This is how the helicopter looked like !!

The boys were fighting over it. So no choice, Amos held on to the remote while Zac was playing with the plane ;p

Much difficulty to play the toy in the house. It can fly really high rather quickly. It will hit the ceiling and fall off. I need to bring the boys to the open field near my house to see how high it could go...

hehe... really an interesting toy right?


HO HO HO ... ... Merry X'mas

The boys looking curiously at the BIG X'mas tree at the newly renovated Kallang Leisure Park.

The boys posing in front of the tree. Zac gave a few funny pose as though competing for model search. He was really interesting to look at !! ;p

Amos was "jumping" with JOY :D

May all of you have a Merry X'mas & a fruitful 2008 ahead :)


The LOVE of my LIFE

A Song I LOVE a lot!

Share with ... ...

The LOVE of my LIFE
I am amazed
When I look at you
I see you smiling back at me
It's like all my dreams come true
I am afraid If I lost you girl
I'd fall through the cracks
And lose me track in this crazy lonely world

Sometimes it's so hard to believe
When the nights can be so long
And gave me the strength
And kept me holding on

You are the love of my life
And I'm so glad you found me
You are the love of my life
Baby put your arms around me
I guess this is how it feels
When you finally find something real
My angel in the night
You are my love
The love of my life
Now here you are
With midnight closing in
You take my hand as our shadows dance
With moonlite on you skin
I look in your eyes
I'm lost inside your kiss
I think if i'd never met you
About all the things i'd missed
sometimes it's so hard to believe
when a love can be so strong
and faith gave me the strength
and kept me holding on
You are the love of my life
And I'm so glad you found me
You are the love of my life
Baby put your arms around me
I guess this is how it feels
When you finally find something real
My angel in the night
You are my love
The love of my life

by Jim Brickman

Pressie from Jean

How cool when you have friends who remembered you while going on a vacation? ;)
Recently, Jean went on a trip to Bangkok with her bf, Martin. She bought a lovely bookmark with an elephant head carvings for me. The pressie came with a sweet little pink note nicely typed out. Thanks dear, you are always so thoughtful. Muackkkssss :)


My Little Helper ....

Not bad right? hehe ;p

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